I want to insert here that we really do love our apartment. It's affordable (compared to many New York apartments), has lots of storage space, and is in an awesome public school district!
However once I started measuring I realized that things weren't going to fit quite as perfectly as I once thought. I'd always randomly assumed our apartment was like 900 sq feet. So I got a little curious about exactly how big it really is and discovered that our beloved apartment is 679 square feet (not including the closets, hallway and bathroom).
YIKES! No wonder it's feeling a bit tight when I start to think about rearranging essential furniture, getting rid of non-essential furniture and putting in a crib. Not to even mention a washing machine. Ugh.
So as
Anyways...all this blather sounds pretty sane right now, but several hours ago I was freaking out along the lines of, "OMG...what are we doing?", "We'll be terrible parents!", "We live on a 4th floor!", "What if our child turns out to be a nutjob because he didn't have enough personal space?", "What if he turns out to be a nutjob because we made him sleep in his own crib and we should have done it euro-style and co-sleep?"
I think you get the picture.
*sigh*
This whole parenting thing seems like it's going to be tougher than I thought. :-]
Trust me NO amount of space is enough! We have 2100 sq feet not including our garage and I am baffled at where we are going to put a baby and ALL IT'S STUFF! :-/ so you are not alone my friend! I seem some serious downsizing going on in our future!! WE CAN DO THIS!!! ;-)
ReplyDeleteYour child will not be a nut job. He / she will be VERY lucky to have grown up in the city. Living spaces are tighter but not spending 20% of your day in a vehicle is a bonus! Hang in there - it will be fine. When I lived in the East Village it was almost as cheap to let the the place on my block wash and fold for me.
ReplyDeletePS Thank God there are starting to be real public school options that don't require retreating to the burbs!
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Kevin, you're telling me! The public school (did I mention it is literally RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET?!) is one of the two best schools in Brooklyn and we wouldn't have to test and then wait in a lottery to get into it! We're just automatically in the district! (For anyone familiar with NYC public schools, you'll understand what a huge sigh of relief that is.) So that's a huge reason why we don't want to move. But just thinking of friend's spaces with little yards and so forth makes me a bit jealous every once in awhile. Oh well, thankfully there are lots of great parks nearby too. I'll just have to make lots of new mommy (and daddy!!) friends at the playground.
DeleteAlso small space living is going to force me to use my problem-solving skills more. Something that although I like doing, it is painful sometimes when it pertains to my living space. :-\